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Heavy Love, My Heavy Love.
Bitched on: Thursday, November 20, 2008
Time: 11/20/2008 12:10:00 AM
I haven't had a decent long sleep in a long time. Its always been quick naps here and there for me; an hour's nap in the afternoon, a couple more from 8pm to 10pm and then the 'sleep' from 3am to 10am. Time: 11/20/2008 12:10:00 AM
And coincindentally my afternoon and evening naps coincide with my niece's. Its really tiring looking after a growing baby... the attention needed, man, its really draining.
So on one of my late nights I was watching Tyra Banks and man, it was really.. how do I put it in words... interesting.
Squashing.
Big women squashing men...
Really really interesting.
At first it was disturbing to me.
I admit, I thought it was freakish.
"They are freaks."
One word, "Gross."
But as the show went on, the big woman in that video spoke and something in me clicked. She said that she had always grown up with a low self esteem, felt unloved and different but now she has finally found someone who loves her for who she is. The guy in the video is her husband fyi.
Why is it that skinny women (skinnier than average) be more 'acceptable' if they were to do the same thing (not necessary squashing but posing nude, providing other sexual favours, striping etc.)? Why then would a large woman posing in an underwear evoke a disgusted reaction?
Why is skinny sexy?
Why is fat not sexy?
Why is fat not healthy?
Is skinny healthy?
Is anorexia?
So the whole show went on with the big women defending themselves against skinnier models who were calling them unhealthy role models, exploited and FAT. Like hello? Isn't that the same for the case of skinny models? They are often too skinny and unhealthy themselves. They too are bad role models for many women, much more influence than the larger women can ever have.
And being exploited? Come on, they too pose nude or in underwears for men to lust and drool after...
So why are guys who love big women called freaks?
Why are porn addicts more acceptable?
Is a paedophile in the same category as a guy who likes big women?
Of course paedophilia is wrong; because like rape, there is no consent. The paedophiles are worst than animals.
Men who like big women are not freaks, so too are men who like skinny women and men who like men. There is mutual consent. And there has to be love somewhere in that equation (to make it more acceptable I suppose).
Cause if there are no men who loves big women, what about the big women?
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