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You don't need to read a book or watch a movie to know that he's just not into you.
Bitched on: Sunday, March 08, 2009
Time: 3/08/2009 02:30:00 AM
Time: 3/08/2009 02:30:00 AM
February is usually the unofficial month for love... and vomit-inducing public displays of affection. But strangely all I see around me last month were break-ups and heart-breaks. And usually the females are the ones who are left in the lurch.
So allow me to dedicate this entry to you ladies out there. And trash talk my kind - boys or men depending on their age or level of maturity. Yes, I will blog about the gender with twice the heads but half a brain. God's rough draft before the improved copy.
Being a single guy has its perks: listening to girls complain about their boyfriends or exes and hearing how loser-ish they really are.
Gone are the days when I envy attached guys. Cause they are mostly a bunch of immature dumba**es who do not know how to treat their girls right. But of course there are a handful who have been truthful and loving to their other halves. And those are the ones I admire... but not envy.
Its hard to find someone who brings a smile to your face just thinking about that person. And boys will be boys, will get sick of something or someone very easily. And that smile will eventually turn into subconscious resentment and exasperation.
Take it from me who have heard it one too many times; boyfriends getting sick of their girlfriends. While its easy for me to tell the girls, move on, he is just not into you anymore, that is frankly all I can say.
Move. On.
And of course I will add the, that guy is a jackass to begin with.
He has the maturity and attention span of a 2-year-old toddler. You do not want to take care of a big baby like him. Heck, even Cate Blanchett was wise enough to let Brad Pitt go. So unless your boyfriend is Brad Pitt, let that emotional-retard go.
The biggest male role model in my life is my Dad. And I will follow in his footsteps how he treats the most important woman in his life, my Mum - with respect. He helps around the house instead of waiting to be served. And I have never once seen him raise his voice at my Mum, even when she nags and nags.
That is how a man should treat any lady. With respect.
But I have heard of my friends' boyfriends abusing them.
Either verbally or physically or both.
I think the former is just as bad the latter.
Whoever said 'sticks and stones may break my bones, but names can never hurt me' is definitely wrong. While the external bruises and scars will eventually go away, its the verbal abuse that scars the spirit and heart, for a really long time. You doubt yourself, your abilities and your self worth.
Take this friend of mine, (a model, mind you) who has a boyfriend who picks on her every little flaws and magnifies them tenfold. She thinks she is fat and ugly.
Another friend has a boyfriend who 'took her in' because he feels pity for her and he never fails to constantly remind her of her 'situation'.
Or another friend whose ex-boyfriend repeatedly compared her to this other girl... whom he eventually went out with after their break-up.
Guys are jerks.
We have huge egos and we want to slap it in your face whenever we can.
These guys definitely have esteem issues and they are taking it out on you. They don't want to lose and by making you feel small, they feel bigger.
Its them you should be pitying. Never yourself.
Lastly, guys who physically abuse women - be it their girlfriends or wives, mothers or sisters; a man is the protector, never the aggressor. And guys who hit women are f*cktards. Bloody cowards who are the scums on this earth.
There will never be an excuse to hit a woman. Ever.
I was really appalled when my female friends were narrating how their ex-boyfriends used to hit them (don't let me see them again, I'm going to personally kick their ass). This is just so inexcusable.
Not a push or a shove. Not even a strand of hair should be pulled, let alone an ear be bitten.
Chris Brown really deserves jail time.
Lets see how he likes it when someone or some people in prison hold him down in a headlock and munch on his ears.
Gone are the days when I envy attached guys. Cause they are mostly a bunch of immature dumba**es who do not know how to treat their girls right. But of course there are a handful who have been truthful and loving to their other halves. And those are the ones I admire... but not envy.
Its hard to find someone who brings a smile to your face just thinking about that person. And boys will be boys, will get sick of something or someone very easily. And that smile will eventually turn into subconscious resentment and exasperation.
Take it from me who have heard it one too many times; boyfriends getting sick of their girlfriends. While its easy for me to tell the girls, move on, he is just not into you anymore, that is frankly all I can say.
Move. On.
And of course I will add the, that guy is a jackass to begin with.
He has the maturity and attention span of a 2-year-old toddler. You do not want to take care of a big baby like him. Heck, even Cate Blanchett was wise enough to let Brad Pitt go. So unless your boyfriend is Brad Pitt, let that emotional-retard go.
The biggest male role model in my life is my Dad. And I will follow in his footsteps how he treats the most important woman in his life, my Mum - with respect. He helps around the house instead of waiting to be served. And I have never once seen him raise his voice at my Mum, even when she nags and nags.
That is how a man should treat any lady. With respect.
But I have heard of my friends' boyfriends abusing them.
Either verbally or physically or both.
I think the former is just as bad the latter.
Whoever said 'sticks and stones may break my bones, but names can never hurt me' is definitely wrong. While the external bruises and scars will eventually go away, its the verbal abuse that scars the spirit and heart, for a really long time. You doubt yourself, your abilities and your self worth.
Take this friend of mine, (a model, mind you) who has a boyfriend who picks on her every little flaws and magnifies them tenfold. She thinks she is fat and ugly.
Another friend has a boyfriend who 'took her in' because he feels pity for her and he never fails to constantly remind her of her 'situation'.
Or another friend whose ex-boyfriend repeatedly compared her to this other girl... whom he eventually went out with after their break-up.
Guys are jerks.
We have huge egos and we want to slap it in your face whenever we can.
These guys definitely have esteem issues and they are taking it out on you. They don't want to lose and by making you feel small, they feel bigger.
Its them you should be pitying. Never yourself.
Lastly, guys who physically abuse women - be it their girlfriends or wives, mothers or sisters; a man is the protector, never the aggressor. And guys who hit women are f*cktards. Bloody cowards who are the scums on this earth.
There will never be an excuse to hit a woman. Ever.
I was really appalled when my female friends were narrating how their ex-boyfriends used to hit them (don't let me see them again, I'm going to personally kick their ass). This is just so inexcusable.
Not a push or a shove. Not even a strand of hair should be pulled, let alone an ear be bitten.
Chris Brown really deserves jail time.
Lets see how he likes it when someone or some people in prison hold him down in a headlock and munch on his ears.
8th March 2009
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